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Rafe Nauen Consultancy

Loyalty

I like biscuits, and when I go to the supermarket, I will buy some. But I never buy all the biscuits on offer, just the ones I like, or suit ME. That does not make me disloyal to the supermarket - it makes me loyal to ME. And the same is true of my family - I can be loyal to the aspects of my history that suit ME, but not all!
  Welcome Families!! We seldom acknowledge how much stuff comes from our history We are born to be loyal to the system we find ourselves in, hence recognizing how much we do things like our own parents did - even if they were absent! Even if we didn’t like it! Remarkable. And Fixable! Mostly I use the constellation model in my work -  I get feedback from clients I saw 10 years ago, who still relate the change in their life’s journey to the constellation they did back then. Some of my clients are neuro-diverse, and some are young with adverse childhood experiences too.